How to Get a Girl to Like You

[artanist]

-STEPS-

# Get involved in activities. Girls like guys who are doing things. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have another way to tell her.

# Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far. If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it.

# Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy's style.

# Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys
who gossip, but love guys who are funny.

# Ask her to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyway.

# Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends. Also, be polite.

# Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better. Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say "I like your hair/clothes." To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off.

#Don't be too clingy, Give her space.

# When you talk to her, don't go on about your vacation in Hawaii. Ask questions and show her you are listening, girls like to talk out stories and such.

# Don't swear in front of her. Girls don't want to hear you swear every ten words. But if they swear around you it might be okay.

# Be sure to try to talk to her as much as possible, and if you like her, just go for it!

# Make sure you remember her birthday and special dates like your anniversaries if you start dating, because otherwise you may get in trouble if she or you bring the subject up. If you have a terrible memory, don't bring special dates up, and pray that she doesn't either.

# Also when you have free time hang out with her, instead of your guy friends.

# If you have known the girl for a long time, you may want to ask her out.

# Do all of this and you will be fine.

-TIPS-

* Make a point of remembering her birthday and other important things.

* Connect to her using body language. Let her catch you looking at her from the corner of your eye. Show her that you're interested, but don't creep her out.

* Show you have confidence; girls hate guys with low self-confidence. But in some cases, girls like shy guys because they might find it "cute."

* Always stay clean; you can easily drive away a girl if you have bad breath or dirty clothes.

* (This is coming from a girl) Girls love it if you do little, sweet things for them, examples: holding the door for them, leaving them notes about anything whatsoever, spinny hugs, etc. Most girls worth getting are suckers for a romantic.

* Work on building a friendship with her friends (remember that friends play a big role in who to go out with). So get on the friends' good side so they will give the girl their approval. Or, if you want to be daring, you can even tell the girl's friends that you like her, and ask them not to tell her (if they tell her, don't be alarmed—they could be saying that because the girl might like you, which is good for you). Take care of her (be like a guy who gives her a blanket to sleep with when she doesn't have one.)

* Notice the little things;most girls put a lot of effort in their appearance, etc. so appreciate it! Come up with creative compliments that really make her smile.

* Be creative when you tell her that you like her.

* Try to become her friend first. If you still like her, then ask her out.

* Don't talk about other girls with her, it may make her feel uncomfortable.

* It's great to compliment her, but don't make your comment sound too generic or shallow. It can be something simple but personalize it to her.

-WARNING-

* If you are a really busy guy, consider dropping a few activities. If you have to break a date with a girl because you have soccer practice, it will only annoy her.

* If you go in for a kiss at the end of your date and she says that she is uncomfortable or that you are going too fast, then slow down. If you really like her you will respect her opinion. Also consider holding back to allow her to make the first steps. However, beware: if she has to make all the steps, she may grow tired of your lack of input.

* Try not to be too possessive, because most people still like their own personal space.

* While it's important to get to know her friends, don't flirt with them! This will lead to her being extremely mad at both you and her friend, and you wouldn't want to wreck a friendship!

* Don't rush into anything. Get to know each other before starting a relationship. If another man is trying to steal her away, be protective of her -- some girls like to be defended by the guy they like.

* Don't be brutally honest. If a girl asks you if she's fat, never say yes - even if she is. Girls like you to boost up their self-esteem! But...

* Don't lie. Sure, little white lies are not horrible, but most worthwhile girls will respect honesty.

* She may end up not liking you even if you do all these things. Oh well! There are other fish in the sea!

* Don't stalk her. Keep your distance or else you'll just creep her out. You have to be at least a little mysterious.

* Don't be a jerk because girls will be repelled by that. Girls react to confidence, not arrogance.

* Don't flirt with other girls! That's just asking for her to not like you.

* Try not to IM her more than twice a day to avoid looking like a clinger.

* If you say you are going to call Monday, be sure to call Monday. Otherwise, just say you will talk to her later. If you don't call on Monday, it's like not showing up for a date. But remember to not call right away in the morning, making her wait a little might let her see how much she likes you!

* DO NOT tease or make fun of her, when guys do that girls think that they are showing off.

* DO NOT wait too long before you go for it. Otherwise you could be put in the "friend zone". Once you're in there you're not getting out.

* DO NOT brag. It is a HUGE turn off. No "I scored that winning goal" or "I can lift 20 pounds in one hand". Sure, it's impressive, but it doesn't show that you care about other people.

* Don't make jokes over everything, a guy who acts the clown can look pathetic and it will just make you look as if you can't take anything seriously.

* Don't spit! This really turns girls off.

* Don't talk about your last girlfriend or crush; that might offend her and make her think that you don't like her.
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tune in for tommorow where artanist will be telling you how to make carrot soda .
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[artanist]

to fullfill MJ request how to make carrot soda...

so, here it is:

Ingredients

* 1-3/4 cups buttermilk
* 1/3 cup vegetable oil
* 1/3 cup sugar
* 2 teaspoons grated lemon rind
* 1-1/4 teaspoons salt
* 2 cups grated carrot
* 3/4 cup currants
* 2 teaspoons baking soda
* 4 cups all-purpose flour


Directions

1. Heat oven to 375°F. Coat baking sheet with nonstick cooking spray.

2. Stir together buttermilk, oil, sugar, lemon rind and salt in very large bowl. Stir in carrot, currants and baking soda. Add flour and quickly stir until just combined.

3. Form dough into ball in bowl. Flatten on prepared baking sheet to 8-inch-wide round. Using sharp knife, cut 1/2-inch deep X in center.

4. Bake in 375°F oven 45 minutes, until wooden pick tests clean. Cool.
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[zenachi]

So how old are you artanist?
And did you get that stuff yourself, or did you look it up?

Because that doesn't all work... I skimmed the first part, and "digging up information" is a strict no. You want to find out about her, you ask her yourself. She'll like how you're interested, and it makes the conversation easier if you find out you have stuff in common.

And don't change yourself to be her "perfect guy" just so she'll like you. You'll get tired of pretending to like stuff you don't, or acting differently than you would. However, manners and healthiness should be something you should change if you're rude or unhealthy, respectively. If you really like the girl and you start dating, you may find you'll start liking the things that she likes, and vice versa, if she's into you too.
If she starts trying to change you, it can be both a good sign or a bad sign, depends on what the girl is like. It could mean you're a keeper in her eyes, and she's trying to mould you into her ideal life partner. Or it could mean you're not good enough, and she wants to improve you, unless she finds someone better. You should be able to tell with the girl.

And beware the "friend-zone." If you're friends too long, that's all she'll think of you as, a friend. Guys actually do this too, there are some girls that I just consider as friends and would never date (and not because they're ugly/fat).

If you do want to get to know her for a while without getting friend-zoned, just make sure she knows she's special to you. Be nice to her friends, but be especially nice to her, her friends will notice, and so will she. Always maintain a flirtatious manner with her, but not with every girl you know, otherwise she'll just think that's how you are, as opposed to you being interested in her specifically.

Anyways, this is mostly from experience (my relationships and friends' relationships) so it works in practice and not just theory.
There's a lot of things that you have to just do yourself rather than look up online. Self-confidence is really important here.

[MicroJak]

And also artanist I must correct you on your carrot soda recipe.


Ingredients

*5 teaspoons of sugar
*a carrot
*some soda



Directions:

Put it all in a liquidiser and enjoy.
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[artanist]

oh... sorry MJ,i mean it's recipe for carrot soda bread
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